Let's find it together.
"You are high-achieving, capable, and used to figuring things out."
Maybe it is a pattern you keep returning to, a loss you haven't had space to grieve, or an ADHD mind that has been compensating for years. Whatever brought you here — you are in the right place.
I work with high-achieving adults navigating the complexity of living between cultures and identities, the weight of expectations, and the gap between the life you are living and the one you want.
"I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become." — Carl Jung
My training began at the All India Institute of Medical Sciences (AIIMS) in New Delhi, one of Asia's most rigorous medical institutions, where I earned my PhD in Clinical Psychology and built a solid foundation in evidence-based practice: cognitive approaches, psychodynamic work, and family systems therapy.
It was a rigorous, science-grounded education in how the mind works, how patterns form, and how therapy, done well, can interrupt them.
What it did not fully prepare me for was my own life.
While I was building and excelling professionally, my personal life was experiencing its own seismic shifts: significant losses in relationships, in identity, in the stability I had carefully constructed. I navigated undiagnosed ADHD long before I had language for it.
During that time I made the decision to uproot myself and move to the United States, where I completed my Master of Social Work, became a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, and went on to work at NYU Silver School of Social Work as a clinician and senior research scientist. There, I worked with adults living with PTSD: people carrying deep, often unspoken wounds that had quietly shaped everything.
That work taught me what it means to hold someone's history with care, and how profoundly the past lives in the present.
Living and working in New York also deepened my understanding of culture, identity, and the particular weight of family expectations carried across generations and across borders.
And yet, something still felt incomplete.
In the therapy room, I kept encountering the same gap: in my clients and, honestly, in myself. People who understood their patterns clearly, who had insight and language and awareness, and still found themselves returning to the same stuck places.
The mind was engaged. The body had not moved.
I came to understand that real transformation requires both. This led me back to India where I started my practice and began integrating somatic and body-based approaches into my work. I later continued this work in Costa Rica, deepening that understanding across yet another culture and healing tradition.
More recently, I have incorporated EMDR into my work, supporting processing at both the cognitive and nervous system level.
I am back in New York now, building Antara with everything I have gathered across those years.
I am still, in many ways, in conversation with the question of home. And over time, I have come to understand what it means to belong nowhere and everywhere at once: to live between worlds, between cultures, between identities, between the mind and the body, between Eastern wisdom and Western science.
That in-between space is Antara. And it is exactly where I do my best work.
I would be honored to share it with you.
There was a time this truth unsettled me deeply. The kind of unsettled that makes you want to stop moving, stop trying, stop believing that anything solid can be built in a world that keeps shifting.
I have sat with that feeling. I have moved through it. And I have come to understand that the shift itself was not the problem. It was my relationship to it.
Life asks us to hold contradictions.
These are not abstract questions. They are the lived paradoxes that shape us — the contradictions we carry quietly, sometimes for years. Not problems to be solved, but paradoxes to be understood and held.
Paradoxes are not opposites pulling us apart. They are interconnected, shaping and giving rise to one another.
At the integration of these paradoxes lies the middle path — a place where light and dark begin to touch, a place where the real work begins.
On this path, we don't have to choose between being and doing. We begin to make space for both.
As we learn to hold different and even opposing parts within ourselves, we build the capacity to hold complexity in others — and in life itself. This capacity is at the heart of emotional and psychological well-being.
I have walked through some of these fires. I continue to move through them.
I work at the intersection of mind and body, of Eastern wisdom and Western science, of cognitive understanding and somatic experience. I believe that real and lasting change requires both: the insight to understand what has shaped you, and the embodied capacity to shift it.
The body often holds what the mind has not yet found words for.
Every client I work with brings a unique constellation of experience, culture, history, and hope. Our work is shaped around that — never a fixed protocol, but a thoughtful, evolving collaboration.
I work with high-achieving adults navigating ADHD, grief and loss, trauma, relationship patterns, career transitions, and the complexity of living between cultures and identities.
At the core of this work is a deeply personalized, person-centered approach. Clients often share that they feel genuinely seen, heard, and understood, and that this becomes the foundation for meaningful change.
My approach is integrative and trauma-informed. Drawing on psychodynamic and family systems therapy, third-wave cognitive approaches such as ACT and DBT, somatic and body-based work, and EMDR, I work both top-down through insight and meaning, and bottom-up through what the body holds.
Sessions are collaborative, grounded, and paced to you. I bring genuine engagement and curiosity to every session, and I am not afraid to gently challenge what may be keeping you stuck. Together we build self-awareness, reconnect with what matters most, process what has been difficult to carry, and develop practical ways of moving forward. Along the way, moments of clarity begin to emerge, those a-ha shifts where something that has long felt tangled suddenly makes sense in a new way.
Over time, clients often notice change not just in how they think, but in how they feel, respond, and move through the world.
Understanding the roots of present patterns — how early relationships, family dynamics, and internalized narratives continue to shape how you move through the world today.
Building psychological flexibility, distress tolerance, and the capacity to hold complexity — skills that help you navigate life's difficulty without being overtaken by it.
Meeting what the body holds — because insight alone is often not enough. We work with breath, sensation, and nervous system awareness to access what words sometimes can't reach.
Processing trauma at both the cognitive and nervous system level — supporting the integration of difficult experiences that may have been held outside of language and ordinary memory.
Growing research is exploring the therapeutic potential of psychedelic substances including MDMA, ketamine, psilocybin, and LSD for symptom relief, expanded awareness, and personal or spiritual growth.
For many, these experiences open profound new perspectives on the self. For others, they can also bring overwhelm, confusion, or unresolved material that needs careful, grounded support.
As a MAPS-certified MDMA-assisted therapist, I offer psychedelic integration therapy to help you make sense of what emerged during your experience and translate those insights into meaningful, lasting change.
This work is not about re-entering the experience, but about honoring it — revisiting your intentions, exploring what surfaced, and developing tools to support ongoing integration.
This process is collaborative and inner-directed. You bring the experience. We work together to understand what it is asking of you, and how it can be integrated into the larger story of your life.
Our work begins with a conversation — an opportunity to understand what brings you here and what you are hoping for.
Sessions are thoughtful, engaged, and paced to you. At times we slow down to notice what is happening beneath the surface, emotionally and in the body. At other times we step back to reflect, make sense of patterns, and find the thread that connects them.
This is not a fixed process. It evolves as you do.
Over time, therapy becomes a space where different parts of you can begin to coexist without needing to choose one over the other.
"The wound is the place where the light enters you." — Rumi
I offer individual therapy in-person in New York City and via telehealth. Sessions are tailored — no two people's work looks the same. Below is a sense of how we might begin.
Before we commit to working together, I offer a complimentary 15-minute phone consultation. This is a space for you to share what brings you here, and for us to get a sense of whether we might be a good fit.
There is no pressure to have everything figured out. You are welcome to arrive with questions, uncertainty, and whatever feels most alive right now.
Standard sessions are 50 minutes and held weekly — though the rhythm we find together is something we'll decide on as we go.
I work in-person in New York City and via secure telehealth — so geography need not be a barrier to beginning.
For certain kinds of work — particularly around trauma processing with EMDR, somatic integration, or at key turning points in therapy — extended sessions offer more time and depth than the standard hour allows.
If you are interested in this format, we can discuss it during our initial consultation or at any point in our work together.
My fee is $224 per session.
I am in-network with Aetna, UnitedHealthcare, Cigna, and BCBS. Superbills are available for out-of-network reimbursement if your plan provides those benefits.
A limited number of sliding scale spots are available for those for whom cost is a barrier. Please don't hesitate to raise this — access matters to me.
Sessions available in: English, Hindi, Punjabi, and Urdu.
Practices, reflections, and reading to support the work we do together — and to nourish your inner life beyond the therapy room.
I read every message personally and respond within two business days. There is no commitment required — only a willingness to begin.